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    Be my Disciples but not my Followers

    Chuang Tzu always watched monkeys. He was deeply interested in them because they are the forefathers of man. And a monkey is hidden in you! This whole world is nothing but a monkey mountain, all around are monkeys. What is the characteristic...
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    You are not individuals, you are only persons, personalities

    You are many, you are a crowd. The master is one, he is not a crowd. You are not one, you are many selves. So one moment you are one thing, another moment you are another thing. You go on changing. Just watch your mind — every moment you go ...
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    Uniqueness is religious, specialness is political

    Question : What is the difference between being special and being unique? BEING unique is everybody’s nature, being special is relative. When you start feeling that you are special you are comparing yourself with somebody. Special: in compar...
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    Uniqueness is religious, specialness is political

    Question 4: What is the difference between being special and being unique? BEING unique is everybody’s nature, being special is relative. When you start feeling that you are special you are comparing yourself with somebody. Special: in compa...
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    on Trusting oneself and Stop doing Imitation

    It is better to be ignorant; at least the ignorance is yours. It is authentic, it is real, sincere and honest! Don’t go on with borrowed knowledge. Otherwise you will forget that you are ignorant, and you will remain ignorant. This sutra say...
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    Anything that becomes an imprisonment is Wrong

    Question : I am aware of a dichotomy within me: when i am near you, i am drawn towards you and am conscious of being a thirsty seeker. When i am away from the ashram i just have a good time and feel deliciously unholy. Is something wrong? No...
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    Religio is individual, religion is organized.

    Question 3 : Osho, Could Religio be termed as Neo-Education? Please comment. No, because education is something very ordinary. Religio will remain religio. It cannot be replaced by another word, for the simple reason that it has multidimensi...
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    Imitation will make you very stupid, unintelligent

    Question 4: Cannot people learn by Imitating others? Ramakrishna, That’s how people learn, but that s how people remain stupid. too. The only way practiced hitherto is that of imitating others. That makes you knowledgeable but it does not ma...
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    Risks should be one of the basic foundations of a real man

    Question : Osho, You are an ever-changing, unpredictable Master — How can we be your contemporary fellow travelers? In the same way! Be unpredictable and be ever-changing. Never stop changing and never stop being unpredictable, and only then...
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    I teach you to live herenow with no idea of the future at all.

    Question : Many see the work that goes on around you as a model for the holistic approach to life. Please talk about this. Krishna Prem, the old man is dying. And it is good news that the old man is on his deathbed, because the new can be bo...
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    on Being Oneself : How can I be Myself?

    Question : Osho, How can I be myself? That should be the easiest thing in the world, but it is not. To be oneself one need not do anything; one already is. How can you be otherwise? How can you be anybody else? But I can understand the probl...
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    Individuality is intrinsically rebellious

    Question 4 Osho, I have never been near so much authentic laughter as i have here in your presence. as i make myself available to the laughter happening around me, i notice myself withdraw and become serious. inside i long to let go and to b...
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    Self-respect and Pride are simply natural to your individuality

    Question 3 Osho, What is the difference between self-respect and pride? Indradhanu, there is no difference between self-respect and pride. There is a difference between the ego and self-respect or pride. Self-respect and pride are simply nat...
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    Can you tell us more about the essential?

    Question 1: Osho, Can you tell us more about the essential? Man is also a seed, a possibility, a potential, a hop, a promise. But the seed is not yet the flower. In essence it has the capacity of millions of flowers, but not in reality. Thos...
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    One has to learn to respect oneself

    The message is to never think about yourself in any way which condemns. One has to learn to respect oneself; that is the beginning of a great change. We have been taught to condemn, to despise, to hate. We have been told to love others but w...
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    Agreeing with someone else is a psychological slavery.

    Question 2 Osho, I'm confused. there is fear and wanting in me. there are moments of silence and moments of suppressing my body, my feelings. why don't i let go totally? am i still greedy? is the falling back into old patterns an expression ...
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    My responsibility is towards my heart, not towards anybody else in the world.

    Everybody in the world wants to be true, because just to be true brings so much joy and such an abundance of blissfulness — why should one be false? You have to have the courage for a little deeper insight: Why are you afraid? What can the w...
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    Each individual is unique, so unique that you have to discover yourself all alone

    The greatest courage in life is needed when you go inwards, for many reasons… The first is: it is a flight from the alone to the alone, it is going deeper into your aloneness. And man is caught up in such a way that he becomes accustomed to ...
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    Why am I scared to accept myself the way i am?

    Question 1: Osho, Why am I scared to accept myself the way i am? Kalyan Mitto, everybody is in the same situation. Everybody is scared to accept himself the way he is. This is how all the past centuries of mankind have cultivated, conditione...
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    What is ambition?

    Question 2: Osho, What is ambition? To live without ambition seems frightening, like starting a new life up from the beginning. Latifa, Ambition is the greatest poison there is. It brings all other poisons in: greed, violence, competitivenes...
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    A religious man is one who is sincere to his inner nature

    Once you become interested in what others say about you, each new act of yours will be a failure. Here it may succeed but this success is absolutely useless because you are never fulfilled by it. You never flow through it. You never come to ...
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    My message is for the individual, and I stand for absolute freedom, individuality

    Question : Do you have any message for us in this new beginning? Just remember one thing: the sannyas movement has entered a critical stage. It is a good sign; it will bring maturity, strength, togetherness. What is to be remembered is that ...
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    The only difference between men and other animals is that of values. No animal lives according to values

    The only difference between men and other animals is that of values. No animal lives according to values; he lives blindly, not knowing why. His life force is unconscious of itself. Many men also live in the same way. They only look like men...
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    Each of my Sannyasins is individual; that’s my message to them

    [The visitor replies: I think they are; the sannyasins want to be copies of you.] That is their misunderstanding. If somebody wants to…. But I am continuously throwing them to themselves. And you need not be that way! Even if others are maki...
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    If you can be ordinary, You are successful

    Question : What is your view of being successful in ordinary life? - i am afraid you are against success! I AM NEITHER AGAINST ANYTHING NOR FOR ANYTHING. Whatsoever happens, happens. One need not choose — because with choice is misery. If yo...
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    Why am i always afraid of other’s opinion?

    Question : Why am i always afraid of other’s opinion? Because you are not, because you are not yet. You are nothing but a piled-up phenomenon of others’ opinion. Who are you? Somebody says you are beautiful, so you are beautiful. And somebod...
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    My message to my sannyasins is: be unique, be individuals

    The word ’nija’ has many meanings: one is self, another is individual.When a person is just his own self, when a person has an individuality – when a person lives his way, in his own way, lives his life in his own way, when a person doesn’t ...
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    When personality disappears, individuality appears

    Man remains a beggar unless he knows what the truth is. And the truth is only one. It is neither mine nor yours; it does not belong to anybody, to any religion, to any ideology, to any church, to any country, to any time. It is eternal, it i...
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    Even after enlightenment the uniqueness of the individual remains intact

    Question : If Krishnamurti is enlightened he must see what you are saying himself, right? So why doesn’t he just come here and find himself a chair and a case of cold sodas and lean back and forget all that? He sees what I am saying and I se...
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    on individuality and ego - Individuality means your uniqueness

    Question : Where do individuality and ego separate? Individuality means your uniqueness — not compared with anybody else. Your incomparable uniqueness: that is individuality. Individuality is beautiful; that’s how God has made you — as an in...
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    on Loving Oneself and Growth

    Anand Narayani. Anand means bliss; Narayani means a goddess -- a goddess of bliss. That's what we are meant to be -- gods and goddesses of bliss. And if we are not it is simply because of our own foolishness; it is simply because of our own ...
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    The real individual cannot promise

    Deva means divine, aruno means the rising sun — the rising sun of divinity. And that1s what sannyas is all about. The sun has always been there, just very close to the horizon, but we have not allowed it to come up, we have not helped it to ...
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    When i die, does my individuality remain?

    Question 7 : Osho, When i die, does my individuality remain? Yes, your individuality remains, but your personality disappears — and you have to understand the difference between the two. The personality is something that is given by the soci...
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    No one can achieve one's individuality by following another

    No one can achieve one's individuality by following another, the other is always the other. I may follow another and roam the whole earth, yet I cannot reach within. And if I want to reach within I will have to cease wandering. To follow alw...
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    To decide means to take risks

    Question 2: Osho, Often i have the feeling that i am not doing something i ought to be doing, or doing something i should not be doing; that something has to change and fast — a schooldays’ worry that i am not going to make the grade, that i...
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    on Personality and Individuality – Don’t cling to Personality

    Question 2 : Beloved Osho, Is It really worth putting any energy into improving my personality? Anand Tarika, have you ever heard me? I have been constantly telling you that the personality has to be dropped so that your individuality can be...
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    The only secret worth learning in life is the Secret of being in Harmony with oneself

    The only secret worth learning in life is the secret of being in harmony with oneself, with others, and with the existence itself. Ordinarily people are constantly in conflict; they are in conflict with existence, with others, and with thems...
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    What does it mean to Love Myself?

    Question : Osho, What does it mean to Love Myself? Prem Kabir, one has to begin not by loving oneself, because you don’t know who you are. Who are you going to love? If you start by loving yourself, you will love only your ego, which is not ...
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    Never reduce anybody to being just a sexual object

    The whole thing seems to be either money or sex. And everybody seems to be reducing life to be just a whorehouse. All sacredness of life is damaged. And then it is natural that if you have a heart which is waiting for love you will remain un...
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    How can I be nothing and unique?

    Question : How can I be nothing and unique? You can be unique only when you are nothing. If you are something, you are comparable. If you are somebody you can be compared with others, and that which can be compared cannot be unique. Unique m...
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    The most important thing in life is to discover your truth

    Bliss is a rebellion and also a victory. It is a rebellion against the stupid society in which we are brought up, against the dull and dead tradition that has been imposed upon us. All kinds of ideologies, philosophies, theologies, have been...
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    God never repeats. He never sends carbon copies to the world.

    This is exactly the situation of humanity: everybody, almost everybody, is on the wrong train! Hence there is so much misery. Misery simply indicates that you are not where you are supposed to be, that you are not moving towards your own des...
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    on Compromise – I am absolutely against compromise. Death is far more beautiful than a life of compromise.

    Question 4: Beloved Osho, Why do I always Compromise? One compromises because one is not certain about one’s truth, one is not certain about one’s own experience. The moment you have experienced something, it is impossible to compromise. The...
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    Just be yourself, ordinary and unique, and fulfill your destiny

    Tao says, that when nobody knows what to make of you – you are so ordinary that nobody knows what to make of you, nobody knows any utility for you, you cannot be used, you are so ordinary, without any talent – then, they say, the real myster...
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    on Fear of Other’s Opinion – Never accept others’ opinions

    Man lives in fear, that’s why he becomes hard. It is fear that creates hardness. In fear we close up; we close all doors and all windows. We start living in a very small, dark hole. Our life already becomes death. And we create an armor arou...
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    I am not to make anything out of you

    Question 5 : I can think of nothing that I wish more clearly than to come closer to your inner temple. Is this possible while I am still doing my own thing? Or is it a prerequisite to drop all activities and interests not connected with you ...
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    on Accepting Challenge – In accepting the very challenge, one becomes a human being

    Anand means bliss, sikha means a peak, a mountain-peak. Bliss is a peak. It is the highest peak of consciousness; there is nothing higher than that. All else – beauty, good, truth, consciousness – are smaller peaks compared to the peak of bl...
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    on Accepting Challenge – In accepting the very challenge, one becomes a human being

    Anand means bliss, sikha means a peak, a mountain-peak. Bliss is a peak. It is the highest peak of consciousness; there is nothing higher than that. All else – beauty, good, truth, consciousness – are smaller peaks compared to the peak of bl...
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    How can we Avoid being Authoritative?

    Question : Osho, How can we avoid being Authoritative? It is very simple. The people who are authoritarian are the people who are suffering from an inferiority complex. To hide their inferiority they impose their superiority. They want to pr...
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    Loneliness is darkness, impotence; aloneness is light, potence

    Bliss needs great courage. Any courage can afford misery — that’s why there are so many miserable people. It costs nothing to be miserable, it is not a risk at all. It is very convenient to be miserable; in fact, comfortable to be miserable....
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    Imitation is a substitute for understanding, and a very poor substitute

    Question : Osho, I have fallen in love with chuang tzu, with joshu, with mumon, with bodhidharma. How can i not follow them? I feel already they have transformed me. How can i not be thankful? Let me tell you one anecdote first. When Rabbi N...
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    Only the individual can become Enlightened

    Question 2 Osho, I heard you saying that enlightenment is the transcendence of mind — conscious, unconscious, sub-conscious — and that one dissolves into the ocean of life, into the universe, into nothingness. I also hear you talking about t...
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    The roots make you an individual, and the wings give you the freedom

    Question 1 Beloved Osho, What are the roots and what are the winds of a meditators? Meditation is a way of settling in oneself, at the innermost core of your being. Once you have found the center of your existence, you will have found both t...
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    Do not search for religion; search for yourself

    12. Do not search for religion; search for yourself. Religion will then automatically come to you. Does religion exist in scriptures? No. Religion does not exist in scriptures. Scriptures are dead and religion is a living entity. Now can tha...
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    Why do you call yourself Bhagwan? why do you call yourself God?

    Question : Why do you call yourself Bhagwan? why do you call yourself God? Because I am, and because you are. And because only god is. There is no other way, there is no other way to be. You may know it, you may not know it. The only choice ...
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    The crowd hates individuals - I love individuals

    Question 3 : Beloved Osho, Although at the time i looked, felt, and behaved more like a mafia heavy than a meditator, you gave me the name, dhyan vipal. Over two years have passed since i took sannyas, and although some people still say i lo...
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