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    Maturity and Aging

    Maturity is awareness. Aging is just wasting yourself. Question 2 What is the difference between maturity and aging? A great difference, a vast difference, and people always remain confused about it. People think to age is to become mature, but aging belongs to the body. Everybody is aging, everybody will become old, but not necessarily ma...
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    The Qualities of a Mature Person

    Question 2 Beloved Osho, What are the qualities of a mature person? The qualities of a mature person are very strange. First, he is not a person. He is no more a self. He has a presence, but he is not a person. Second, he is more like a child -- simple and innocent. That's why I said the qualities of a mature person are very strange, becau...
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    The basic problem of love is to first become mature

    You can go on changing your husband or your wife a thousand and one times, you will again find the same type of woman and the same misery repeated in different forms – but the same misery repeated; it is almost the same. You can change your wife, but you are not changed. Now who is going to choose the other wife? You will choose. The choic...
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    Maturity does not come with age alone

    154. Love. A small boy with a penny clutched tightly in his hot little hand entered the toyshop and drove the proprietor to distraction asking him to show this and that and everything without ever making up his mind. Look here, my boy, said the storekeeper finally. What do you want to buy for a penny — the whole world with a fence around i...
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    You can become mature only if you are like a child

    You can become mature only if you are like a child Childishness is a kind of sentimental emotional state. That is not needed for you. Every child has to be allowed to be childish, as every adult has to be allowed to be adultish, but an adult can also have the qualities of being a child. Childishness is not needed, that tantrum quality is n...
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    Maturity : The Responsibility of Being Oneself

    Maturity Listen to your being. It is continuously giving you hints; it is a still, small voice. It does not shout at you, that is true. And if you are a little silent you will start feeling your way. Be the person you are. Never try to be another, and you will become mature. Maturity is accepting the responsibility of being oneself, whatso...
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    Ageing (Aging)

    Question 2 Osho, I am feeling ancient lately, not ancient as in wise, but ancient as in feeling like a wrinkled up old prune. Maneesha, there are many people who like wrinkled up old prunes. I don't like, that's true. Just a few days ago Shunyo has brought me wrinkled up old prunes. I said, "Shunyo, never again." But that does not mean tha...
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    on Maturity

    on Maturity - Maturity means gaining your lost innocence again - To grow old is not to grow up; to become old is not to become mature. Maturity has nothing to do with old age, nothing to do with age at all. Maturity has something to do with becoming more and more conscious, becoming more and more silent and aware, becoming more and more wa...
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    Why am I always afraid of being Old?

    Question 1: Why am I always afraid of being Old? Show me the way how i can get rid of it. LIFE, if rightly lived, if really lived, is never afraid of death. If you have lived your life, you will welcome death. It will come like a rest, like a great sleep. If you have peaked, climaxed in your life, then death is a beautiful rest, a benedict...
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    Maturation

    Question 2 Osho, Is Maturation an ongoing process? How is maturation related to Awareness? Please explain. Yes, maturation is an on-going process. There is no limit to it – not even the sky is the limit. Your consciousness is far bigger than the whole universe. It is infinitely infinite. You cannot come to a point where you can say, ‘Enoug...
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    The older a person becomes, the more cautious he becomes

    Question 2: Osho, I am seventy-five years old. I want to become a sannyasin, But i don’t know why i am hesitating. Prakash Chandra Sethia, I think you should wait a little more! Let death come first, then I can initiate you into sannyas…because when death has already happened, there will be no hesitation: you will not be there at all. Seve...
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    Just becoming old does not mean that you have become a wise man

    GRAY HAIRS DO NOT MAKE A MASTER. A MAN MAY GROW OLD IN VAIN. Just becoming old does not mean that you have become a wise man. Age in itself does not make anybody wise. One may grow old; that does not mean that one has become a grown-up. Growing old and becoming grown-up are totally different phenomena. A young reporter was interviewing old...
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    As you are growing older, if you don’t start growing in awareness, you are bound to become cunning.

    Question 8 Osho, The other day you said that the old people become cunning. What are your grounds for saying so? Kumarel, I am a crazy person. I don’t say things because there are grounds to say them. I simply say something because I enjoy saying it. I cannot give you any proofs and I am never interested in proofs, but I can tell you a sto...
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    The generation gap exists simply because the reason for respect has disappeared

    Question 2 : Osho, What is this generation gap? I hear so much about it these days. Jayesh, two old men of eighty were sitting in their club when one said, “Do you think there is as much love, as much fun going on as there used to be?” “Yes, certainly,” said the other, “but there is a whole new bunch doing it.” That’s what the generation g...
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    What is maturity?

    Maturity is accepting the responsibility of being oneself, whatsoever the cost. Question What is maturity? how can i be mature? You will have to understand first what immaturity is. That will give you the idea of what maturity is. Immaturity has a few ingredients in it. One, immaturity is a sort of dependence. A child depends on the parent...
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    Without training the intellect the children will remain like animals

    Question : Osho, If intellect is such an obstacle in the journey towards self-realization, is not then training and sharpening of it just useless? Is it not possible that because of their innocence and expressiveness, children should be helped To move into meditation directly, without imparting them any training in the intellect? It is wor...
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    Senility is growing old without growing up

    Question : Is the childishness of senility anything to do with awareness? Is senility a disease of the west only? What is senility? It has nothing to do with East or West. East and West may differ on the surface — deep down there is no difference. Man is man… maybe a few different patterns in the East and a few different patterns in the We...
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