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Blame : The whole responsibility is yours, don't blame anybody

 

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People only reap the crop they have sown themselves. To become aware of it is the greatest moment in one's life, because from there transformation begins, from there a new life starts.

 

Take the whole responsibility of whatsoever you are, and wherever you are. This is the first principle of my sannyas: The whole responsibility is yours, don't blame anybody, and don't try to find causes somewhere else. It is easy, and it is the strategy of the ego always to find causes somewhere else, because then there is no need to change. What can you do? The society is wrong, the social structure is wrong, the political ideology is wrong, the government is wrong, the economic structure is wrong -- everything is wrong except you. You are a beautiful person fallen into everything wrong. What can you do? Then you have to suffer, and then you have to learn how to tolerate.

 

That's what people have been doing for centuries -- learning tolerance. I don't teach you tolerance; I teach you transformation. Enough of tolerance! Tolerance means you have misunderstood the whole thing. Transformation means you have started to begin -- at least the first ray of understanding has entered in you. Now whatsoever it is, watch each step how it comes. If it is anger watch; if it is sexuality, watch; if it is greed, watch -- the three poisons of Ko Hsuan. And through watchfulness you will be able to get rid of them. In fact, through watchfulness they simply start disappearing.

 

-Osho, ”Tao: The Golden Gate, Vol 2, #5“

 

 

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Osho Dictionary

A Spiritual Dictionary for the Here and Now

List of Articles
No. Category Subject
43 B Babies : All babies are beautiful, but all grown-ups are not beautiful.
42 B Bachelorhood : she was also looking for a perfect husband!
41 B Baggage : On the highest peaks, one has to be weightless.
40 B Balance : Witnessing brings balance.
39 B Bardo : Between These Two Dreams
38 B Beauty : The deeper you become, the more beautiful you are.
37 B Beggars : The meeting of a world conqueror with a beggar
36 B Beginners : The Zen person always keeps the beginner's mind
35 B Behaviorism : He lives in such cowardly ways, he is so afraid of anything new.
34 B Belief : The believer is not a seeker.
33 B Betrayal : There is only one betrayal: and that is to betray one's own life.
32 B Bibles : People become interested only when they are almost in their graves.
31 B Biography : After Self-Knowledge there Is No Autobiography
30 B Birthdays : One is never born and never dies; both are illusions.
29 B Bitterness : We are bitter because we are not what we should be.
28 B Black hole : Black hole is like Buddha’s concept of emptiness
» B Blame : The whole responsibility is yours, don't blame anybody
26 B Blindness : Don't carry the books
25 B Bliss : Bliss needs great courage
24 B Bliss : Blissfulness is our birthright
23 B Body : The body has a great wisdom in it.
22 B Boiling Point : They don't have intensity. They live only so-so, lukewarm
21 B Books : Beware of knowledge. It is so cheap to become knowledgeable.
20 B Boredom : A Buddha is not bored, A Jesus is not bored
19 B Boredom : Boredom comes out of insensitivity.
18 B Boredom : Boredom is human, a very great quality
17 B Boring Life : The sun rises every day, you can say that it is repetitive. It is not
16 B Bosses : There is no hierarchy.
15 B Boundaries : All boundaries are our beliefs
14 B Bragging : Don't try to kill the ego -- you cannot.
13 B Brainwashing : I am a brainwasher.
12 B Bravery : A brave man is a cunning coward.
11 B Breakdown : Breakdown brings you below the mind. it is insanity.
10 B Breasts : Their childhood is still there.
9 B Breath : Breath is your life; it contains all that life contains
8 B Breath : Everybody breathes wrongly
7 B Bribery : Unless God is removed the priest cannot be removed
6 B Brownnose : In monkeys there exists a hierarchy. Perhaps the same mind and the same hierarchy are carried by man too
5 B Buddhafield : An energy field where you can start growing, maturing
4 B Bullshit : 'Bullshit' is a far better word than 'rationalisation'
3 B Burdens : People have condemned your innocence as ignorance.
2 B Business : Business should not enter into your being, that is true.
1 B Busyness : People want to remain occupied. Nobody wants to rest
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