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Seriousness : The meaning lying in the end, not just here and now. The end must be achieved.

Seriousness

 

 

Question

Osho,

Life is tremendously serious...

 

 

No, life is not serious. You are serious. Life is very nonserious; nothing can be more nonserious than life. Life is absolutely nonserious!

 

 

Question

Osho,

But certain things have been achieved only because a person has been – maybe the word serious is not good – but the person has been really intense.

 

 

Intensity is a very different thing from seriousness. If you are serious, you can never really be intense; you can only be tense. That’s a different thing. With seriousness, you can never be intense and deep. With seriousness, you will always be shallow.

 

Life is not serious at all. Life is just a nonserious play – with nothing to be achieved, with nowhere to reach. It is just a play, with no end. Seriousness is always end-oriented. It means you are living in order to achieve something, and life will be meaningless if you don’t achieve it.

 

This is seriousness: the meaning lying in the end, not just here and now. The end must be achieved. If you achieve it, then it is okay. If you don’t achieve it, then everything is lost. So you are serious because you have made a point somewhere, and with it you have identified the whole meaning of your life.

 

You can never achieve anything, because nothing is static, everything is changing. You fix something today; tomorrow nothing is going to be the same, not even the planner. The whole will have changed completely; the end will remain only in your mind. The whole situation has changed now so you can never achieve it. That is why there is so much frustration.

 

You try, you think, you plan, you work – and then there is no achievement. The very thing that you desire never comes into your hands. It can never come. If life were a static and fixed thing, not dynamic and flowing, then you could achieve it – but then life would be a death. Life is life because it is dynamic, changing. You cannot predict its course. I is unpredictable. That’s what we mean when we say it is dynamic and flowing; it is always flowing into nowhere.

 

If you are serious, then you cannot flow. Then you are frozen inside; then you become just a dead stone. Then there are resistances around you. You cannot melt, you cannot be. As life changes, transforms, you cannot transform and change yourself with it. You have a fixed pattern, a fixed shape. Now the shape will be the resistance. Then there will be a struggle. Seriousness creates frozenness; frozenness creates a struggle. You cannot just let go.

 

So be ready to be any shape or form. Any shape or form is good: trees are good and dogs are good and man is good. Be ready to be in any shape or form, then you will be living more and living intensely – because intensity is killed when you become identified with a particular form. Then you are shallow because you are concerned with the form, not with the being. Then you will be tense, not intense.

 

It you are ready to be any shape whatsoever then there is no surface to you: there is no shape and no form. You are ready to be in any form. Then you begin to live inwardly and you can flow with everything. And the more you can flow, the more alive you are.

 

So to me, life is not seriousness at all – but religious people have made it serious. That’s why religious people are basically antilife. But to me, that is not religion, that is just a metaphysics for suicide – it is suicidal. To me, religion means a very nonserious attitude – very childlike in everything, very innocent.

 

A serious person can never be innocent, and one who is innocent can never be serious. They are contradictory; they cannot exist simultaneously. A child is never serious, but very intense, in everything intense. If he is playing he is intense; if he is angry he is intense, if he is loving he is intense. But an old man is never intense. He is serious. Even when he is playing he is serious. He will turn play into work because the play will become a fight, a struggle, competition, defeat and victory – everything will come, every nonsense will emerge. It will not be just a play.

 

So intensity is something else. It is not seriousness. With seriousness, sadness is always about to come. You cannot enjoy seriousness, you cannot be happy with seriousness, you cannot laugh with seriousness. That’s why saints have never laughed. With seriousness, sadness is always bound to be somewhere around the corner.

 

Seriousness is sad, it cannot laugh. And even if it laughs, it is only a release mechanism and the laughter is not innocent – it is only a release mechanism. A serious person can laugh, but then it is only to release the tension of seriousness, and then again he is ready to be serious. Tensions are accumulated.

 

If I tell a joke, then I create tension in you, expectation, curiosity. What is going to happen? How will the thing turn out? So you become tense with expectation. You become serious, and your mind begins to work – what is the end going to be? And if the end turns out just as you have expected it to, you will not laugh because then there is no release. If the end turns out to be completely unimagined, if the end is just a turning, a complete turn; if you could never have expected that this will be the end, then the tension which has come to a climax is released. You laugh. That laughter is not innocent, because that laughter is just a by-product of tension. So every joke has to create a tension in you. Then you feel released.

 

But innocent laughter is something very different. It is not a release mechanism, it is just a way of living. It is just a way of living!

 

Take laughing as a way of living. Exist as laughter; you will be absolutely nonserious. It may be that you may not be able to achieve anything, but what is the meaning of achievement? Even one who achieves – what does he achieve? Even by achieving, nothing is achieved. Then the whole absurdity is this: even if you achieve something, nothing is achieved and much is lost.

 

-Osho, "The Eternal Quest, #7"

 

 

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Osho Dictionary

A Spiritual Dictionary for the Here and Now

List of Articles
No. Category Subject
1031 A Absolute : A man of truth is always relative.
1030 A Abstinence : You can be a celibate, but to be a celibate does not mean to go beyond sexuality.
1029 A Abstractions : Because you can't love human beings you start loving humanity just to deceive yourself. Avoid abstractions.
1028 A Absurd : The absurd is nothing but another name of God
1027 A Absurdity : Collect as many absurdities in your life as possible.
1026 A Accept yourself : Accept yourself as you are, and accept totally, unconditionally. That is the way God wants you to be
1025 A Accept Yourself : This is the first step of Unio Mystica: be one with yourself.
1024 A Acceptance : Accepting is another name for Let Go
1023 A Acceptance : If somebody hits you, bow down your head, accept it with gratitude.
1022 A Accidental : Become a little more conscious. See what is happening.
1021 A Accidents : Consciousness can be, and without content. So that accident was a blessing.
1020 A Accidents : life goes ahead and your mind is past-oriented
1019 A Acharya : He knows exactly what he’s teaching, but not on his own authority.
1018 A Act : You will create a chain of reactions and you will get into karma.
1017 A Acting : The really spiritual person transforms his whole life into an acting.
1016 A Action : You have to use action to attain non-action.
1015 A Action and Activity : Action is when the situation demands it, you act, you respond. Activity is when the situation doesn't matter, it is not a response
1014 A Active Meditation : All traditional methods have become irrelevant.
1013 A Activity : Action is not activity; activity is not action.
1012 A Activity : Activity has utility, action is pure joy, pure beauty.
1011 A Acupuncture : Acupuncture deals with the cause. Never deal with the effect
1010 A Adam's Apple : Adam became knowledgeable, hence the fall. So knowledge is the fall.
1009 A Adam's Apple : I am against all kinds of enforced things.
1008 A Admiration : One wants to be admired because one has no respect for oneself.
1007 A Adultery : The real meaning of adultery is making love while you are not in love.
1006 A Advaita : Advaita means not two
1005 A Advaita : Existence Is Advaita
1004 A Advertising : It hypnotized you.
1003 A Advice : Listen, but don’t follow.
1002 A Ageing (Aging) : You are just pure consciousness
1001 A Aging : Change beautifies everything.
1000 A Ah : Ah, this cake is delicious
999 A AIDS : Perversion requires the basic condition that you are fed up with changing women, you want something new.
998 A Alchemy : How to change the negative into the positive
997 A Alcohol : Nothing but a chemical strategy to forget your miseries, anxieties, your problems, to forget yourself.
996 A Alertness : If you are alert, if your actions become more and more aware
995 A Alienation : He is an uprooted tree. He has forgotten how to relate with existence
994 A Alone : The person who is not able to be alone cannot be together with somebody, because he has no individuality.
993 A Aloneness : Rejoicing in Your Own Aloneness
992 A Aloneness : We are born alone, we live alone, and we die alone
991 A Ambition : Nothing kills love more than Ambitiousness
990 A Ambition : The result of an inferiority complex
989 A Ambition : The root cause
988 A Amen : It simply means "Yes, Lord, yes. Let thy will be done.
987 A Analysis : The beauty is something more, hence in analysis it disappears.
986 A Androgyny : Where your man and woman inside meet and mingle and disappear into each other.
985 A Angels : You are simply creating belief systems to cling to.
984 A Anger : Anger is just a mental vomit.
983 A Anger : If anger rages within, shout, cry, jump, talk, babble, do whatever you please
982 A Anguish : Anguish is, in short, the quest of who you are.
981 A Anguish : God is not responsible for your stupidity. It is your own work.
980 A Anguish : The anguish of not knowing oneself
979 A Answer : To Be Questionless is the Answer
978 A Anti Christ : The people who established Christianity, they are the Antichrist.
977 A Apology : We don't try to reform ourselves, we only try to reform our image.
976 A Art : If it leads you towards God, it is true art, it is authentic art.
975 A Art : To be a painter, you have to drop the ego
974 A Art, Objective : Objective art means something that helps you to become centered
973 A Asleep : Man is asleep – man lives in a deep slumber
972 A Assertion (Assertive) : Everybody has to be assertive, not aggressive.
971 A Astrology : Astrology is an investigation into the possibility that whatever is happening anywhere in the universe also affects man.
970 A Astrology : The Science of Cosmic Oneness
969 A Atheism : Just as the theists are blind, so are the atheists. Both are believers.
968 A Attachment : Attachment means clinging to something, wanting it the way it is forever.
967 A Attention : If you pay much attention to suffering, you help it to grow. If you pay much attention to happiness, you help it to grow.
966 A Aum : The primordial sound of which the whole universe consists
965 A Aum : The symbol of the seventh body
964 A Austerity : Austerity does not mean torture; austerity means a simple life, an austere life.
963 A Authenticity : To be authentic means to be true to oneself.
962 A Authoritative : Authoritarian People are suffering from Inferiority Complex
961 A Autohypnosis : You create illnesses! You believe in them.
960 A Average : You will drop your averageness. It is just forced on you.
959 A Avoidance : The harder you try to avoid it, the more focused you become on it.
958 A Awareness : The Seed of Godliness in You
957 B Babies : All babies are beautiful, but all grown-ups are not beautiful.
956 B Bachelorhood : she was also looking for a perfect husband!
955 B Baggage : On the highest peaks, one has to be weightless.
954 B Balance : Witnessing brings balance.
953 B Bardo : Between These Two Dreams
952 B Beauty : The deeper you become, the more beautiful you are.
951 B Beggars : The meeting of a world conqueror with a beggar
950 B Beginners : The Zen person always keeps the beginner's mind
949 B Behaviorism : He lives in such cowardly ways, he is so afraid of anything new.
948 B Belief : The believer is not a seeker.
947 B Betrayal : There is only one betrayal: and that is to betray one's own life.
946 B Bibles : People become interested only when they are almost in their graves.
945 B Biography : After Self-Knowledge there Is No Autobiography
944 B Birthdays : One is never born and never dies; both are illusions.
943 B Bitterness : We are bitter because we are not what we should be.
942 B Black hole : Black hole is like Buddha’s concept of emptiness
941 B Blame : The whole responsibility is yours, don't blame anybody
940 B Blindness : Don't carry the books
939 B Bliss : Bliss needs great courage
938 B Bliss : Blissfulness is our birthright
937 B Body : The body has a great wisdom in it.
936 B Boiling Point : They don't have intensity. They live only so-so, lukewarm
935 B Books : Beware of knowledge. It is so cheap to become knowledgeable.
934 B Boredom : A Buddha is not bored, A Jesus is not bored
933 B Boredom : Boredom comes out of insensitivity.
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