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Religion: One of the Biggest Crimes Against Humanity

 

 

Question :

Are you trying to destroy all of our previous ideas about religion?

 

 

There is no other way to be religious. All that you have heard about religion, read about religion, has to be totally dropped. Unless you are clean, with no writing on your consciousness, you will never know what religion is. The so-called religions are doing just the opposite. And you can see the result. The whole world is divided into religions: somebody is going to the synagogue, somebody is going to the temple, somebody else is going to the church. But do you find any religiousness anywhere?

 

Every child is brought up, conditioned, into a certain religion. It is one of the biggest crimes against humanity. Nothing can be a bigger crime than to pollute the mind of an innocent child by ideas which are going to become hindrances in his discovery of life. The moment you want to discover something, you have to be absolutely unprejudiced. You cannot discover religion as a Mohammedan, as a Christian, as a Hindu - no. These are the ways to prevent you from discovering religion. Every society, until now, has been trying to indoctrinate every child. Before the child becomes capable of asking questions, he is being given answers.

 

Do you see the stupidity of it? The child has not asked the question, and you are providing him with an answer. What you are doing in reality is killing the very possibility of the question arising. You have filled his mind with the answer. And unless he has his own question, how can he have his own answer? The quest has to be sincerely his. It cannot be borrowed, it cannot be inherited. But this nonsense has continued for centuries.

 

The priest is interested, the politician is interested, the parents are interested in making something of you before you can discover who you are. They are afraid that if you discover who you are, you will be a rebel, you will be dangerous to the vested interests. Then you will be an individual, living in his own right, not living a borrowed life. They are so afraid, that before the child becomes capable of asking, inquiring, they start stuffing his mind with all kinds of nonsense. The child is helpless. He naturally believes in the mother, in the father, and of course he believes in the priest in whom the father and mother believe. The great phenomenon of doubt has not arisen yet.

 

And it is one of the most precious things in life, to doubt, because unless you doubt you cannot discover. You have to sharpen your doubting forces so that you can cut through all rubbish and you can ask questions which nobody can answer. Only your own quest, inquiry, will help you to come to the realization of them. The religious question is not something which can be answered by somebody else. Nobody else can love on your behalf. Nobody else can live on your behalf.

 

You have to live your life, and you have to seek and search the fundamental questions of life. And unless you discover yourself, there is no joy, no ecstasy. If God is just given to you, ready-made, it is not worth anything, it is valueless. But that's how it is being done. What you call religious ideas are not religious, but only superstitions carried down the ages - so long, that just their ancientness has made them appear like truth.

 

Adolf Hitler, in his autobiography, My Struggle, makes many significant statements. The man was mad, but sometimes mad people say things which sane people are afraid to say. One of his most important statements is that, "any lie can become truth if repeated often, emphasized again and again, told by everybody from every corner." You go to the school and you hear about God and prayer. In the home you hear about God and prayer. You go to the temple and you hear about God and prayer. So many people - and just a small child against this whole mob. It is impossible for him to doubt - all these people are wrong?

 

And these are not the only people. Their parents, and their parents, for thousands of years, have been believing in these truths. They all cannot be wrong. "And I, a small child against this whole humanity..." He cannot gather courage. He starts repressing any possibility of doubt. And everybody else helps to repress doubt because, "Doubt is from the devil. Doubt is a great, perhaps the greatest sin. Belief is virtue. Believe and you will find; doubt, and you have missed on the very first step."

 

The truth is just the opposite. Believe and you will never find, and whatsoever you find will be nothing but the projection of your own belief - it will not be truth.

 

What has truth to do with your believing? Doubt, and doubt totally, because doubt is a cleansing process. It takes out all junk from your mind. It makes you again innocent, again the child which has been destroyed by the parents, by the priests, by the politicians, by the pedagogues. You have to discover that child again. You have to start from that point.

 

Hence, my whole effort here is to destroy all your so-called religious ideas. It will hurt you because those religious ideas have become so intimate to you that you have forgotten that they are not your discoveries, they are not your experiences. You have not lived them; you have not even loved them. Somebody else has forced you to believe in them, and whosoever has done it has committed an inhuman act against you.

 

I am not saying that those people are knowingly doing it. They are themselves victims of the same process. Their parents did it to them, their teachers did it to them. So I am not saying that you start feeling angry against them. They did it thinking it is good for you...but just by their thinking, anything is not going to become good - just by their thinking. They have been trying to help you, but they don't know that there are things in which a person should be left alone; only then can he discover. If you try to help him, you are crippling him.

 

Don't try to force anybody to take your help while he can manage on his own. Don't force anybody to see through your eyes, when he has eyes. And at least, please, don't place your specs on anybody's eyes; your numbers are different. You will drive that person blind. You will distort his vision. But not only specs are being put on you, people are putting their eyes on top of your eyes...and they are all doing it for your good, for your sake. And after twenty years, thirty years of continuous conditioning, you start forgetting that you had never asked the question in the first place.

 

I am reminded of a very creative person, Gertrude Stein. She was dying; her friends were around her. Suddenly she opened her eyes and asked, "What is the answer?" And the friends looked puzzled. Had she gone made just before death? Had she lost her reason? What kind of thing was she asking: "What is the answer?"

One of them said, "But you have not asked the question, so how can we say what is the answer?" So she said, "Okay then, tell me what is the question." And she died.

 

To me it is of tremendous significance. It relates to almost every human being. You have forgotten that you had not asked the question, and the answer has already been forced into you. And of course it is a simple process of conditioning...go on telling the person, go on telling the person the same thing again and again. Soon, the person starts repeating it like a gramophone record. And the person has forgotten that he had not asked the question. Perhaps at the very end Stein discovered her fresh childhood. It happens to many people when they are dying.

 

The circle completes, they come to the same point from where they had begun. So she is asking, "What is the answer?" because only answers were given. And nobody had bothered about the question. And when now, at this last moment, somebody asked, "But first tell us what is the question" she becomes aware...but now it is too late. And the answers have been so much, so heavy, such a load on the being, that now to ask an authentic question also has become impossible. So she asks, "Okay, if a question is needed, then I ask you, 'What is the question?'"

 

To me, this small incident is immensely significant. It is everybody's life. You talk about God, you talk about the soul, you talk about heaven, hell, but have you ever thought - are these questions? Are you really interested in God? What interest can you have in God? On what grounds can you have God become your quest? I was born in a Jaina family. In Jainism God is not believed in; there is no God, as creator. Because the conditioning of Jainism does not enforce the idea of God on its children, no Jaina child, or an old Jaina ever asks, "Who created the world?" Because they have been conditioned, from the very beginning, that the world exists from eternity to eternity; there is nobody who is a creator, and there is no need. Hence the question does not arise.

 

The Buddhist never asks the question, "What is God, where is God?" because Buddhism does not believe in God - so the child has been conditioned in that way. When you ask about God, you think that it is your question " it is not. You may have been born in a Hindu family, in a Christian family, in a Jewish family, and they have conditioned your mind that there is a God. They have given a certain image of God, certain ideas about God. And they have created you with such fear that to doubt is dangerous.

 

A small, tiny kid is being made afraid of the eternal hell where you will be thrown into fire, alive, and you will burn but you will not die. Naturally the doubt does not seem to be so significant to take such risk. And you are motivated that if you believe, simply believe, all pleasures, all joys of life are yours. Believe, and you are on the side of God; doubt, and you are on the side of the devil. The small child is bound to buy whatsoever crap you are giving him. He is afraid. He is afraid to be alone in the night, in the house, and you are talking about eternal hell: "You go on falling and falling into darkness and deeper darkness, and there is no end to it, and you can never come out of it."

 

Naturally the child simply shrinks from doubting, becomes so afraid that it is not worth it. And belief is so simple. Nothing is expected of you - just to believe in God, the son, the Holy Ghost...just to believe that Jesus is the son of God, and the messiah - and he has come to redeem the whole of humanity - and he will redeem you too. Why not be redeemed so cheaply? You are not asked much. Just believe, and everything will be settled in your favor. So why should you choose doubt? You should naturally choose belief.

 

And this happens at such a small age - and then you go on growing, and the belief and the conditioning and the ideas and the philosophy all go on top of it - that it is very difficult to dig and find out that there was a day when you were also full of doubt. But the doubt has been crushed, put out of sight. There was a day when you were reluctant to believe, but you have been persuaded. All kinds of rewards have been placed before you.

 

You can persuade a little child just by giving him a toy - and you have given him the whole paradise. If you have succeeded in persuading him to believe, you have not done a great miracle. It is very simple exploitation. Perhaps you are doing it unknowingly; you have also been passed through the same process. And once you close the doors of doubt you have closed the doors of reason, thinking, asking, inquiring. You are no more really a human being. The doors of doubt closed, you are just a zombie, hypnotized, conditioned, persuaded out of fear, out of greed, to believe in things which no normal child is going to believe, if all these things are not arranged.

 

And once you stop doubting and thinking, then you can believe anything whatsoever. Then there is no question. The politician wants it, because if you are a believer in a certain religion you are gullible. That shows your gullibility. It is enough indication. If you go to the church, it is enough indication that you are not a man who thinks, who questions, who argues, who will not take anything unless it is proved logically, rationally, scientifically. You go to the synagogue, you go to the mosque - the politician is happy. He wants everybody to go to the synagogue, to the mosque, to the church...it does not matter where you go, but go - because they all do the same.

 

The basic structure, the strategy, is not different. Hindu, Mohammedan, Christian, Jew, it does not matter, because the basic strategy is exactly the same: close the doors of doubt completely, don't take any chances, don't leave any question marks in the person, and fill his mind with all kinds of beliefs. If you look at beliefs you will be surprised. People have believed any nonsense. If you give freedom to every child, they can make your popes and your imams and your monks just look absolutely idiotic. In the category of idiots they can put them. Just your children...nothing is needed, if you allow them to doubt.

 

But they are not allowed to doubt. And once you become accustomed to a belief, it slowly, slowly poisons your whole being. Then if somebody is attacking it, it feels as if he is attacking you. That has been my trouble. My whole life I have been attacking. Unless I attack your belief system, your ideology, I cannot be of any help to you; I cannot share myself with you. There is a wall, a thick wall. I can go on shouting; you will not hear me.

 

I have to hit the wall continuously, hammer it, at least make a hole in it, so I can see you, you can see me - face to face. And I can revive what has been taken away from you. I can give you back your innocent childhood, and only from there a real inquiry into truth begins. Only from there, religion is possible. Otherwise you can only talk about religion.

 

-Osho, "From Unconsciousness to Consciousness,  #13, Q1"

 

 

 

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    Question 2: Osho, What is your idea of true eduction? THE EDUCATION THAT HAS EXISTED up to now has not been true. It has not served humanity; on the contrary, it has served the vested interests. It has served the past. The teacher has been an agent of the past. He functions as a mediator to give past...
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    on Mother Child Relationship, When you are screaming at them, you have to love them also

    [The new sannyasin says she is concerned about screaming at her son. Osho asks her to give an example, and she replies: He comes up to his sister and he pinches her and she shrieks. It makes me nervous and so I scream at him to stop it.] No, don’t be worried about screaming – not at all. It is natura...
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    Every child is born clever. No child is ever born idiotic

    Every child is born clever. No child is ever born idiotic. To become an idiot one needs to be educated. To convert people to idiocy, schools and colleges and universities are needed. It is a great achievement. Idiocy is not natural; it has to be learned, it has to be earned. Great effort has to be ma...
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    There is nothing to judge

    Question 3 Beloved Osho, You often tell us that we should not judge ourselves or other people. I am a teacher and because of my job I have to judge the students. Now that I am going back to Italy, I am worried about how I shall manage with my job. Can you give me some help? Kalo Shreeman, my saying t...
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    14. Robopaths are Never Creative

    Robopaths are Never Creative Question : I want to be creative. What should I do? Become a child again and you will be creative. All children are creative. Creativity needs freedom - freedom from the mind, freedom from knowledge, freedom from prejudices. A creative person is one who can try the new. A...
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    how can we help children to grow

    Question 1: Osho, Having heard you talk about competition and our childhood the other morning, it set me thinking of my own education. i realized that for twenty-one years solidly, every single event at school -- from playing in the garden, through official sports, to latin grammar -- was basically a...
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    The day the child is born, the mother is also born

    [A sannyasin and her young son are present. She says: It’s very difficult for me – I feel he is very strong and I don’t feel strong at all. I don’t know what to do in certain situations.] Let him be strong! Why should you be worried about his strength? It is good. He has to be strong and the mother h...
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    4. Education and Religion

    Education and Religion Discourse date: Fri, 3 March 1967 00:00:00 GMT There was a fakir who was very alone. He saw God in his dream and found that he was even more alone. The fakir was puzzled and asked God, "Why are you also so alone? You have many devotees - where are they?" On hearing this, God sa...
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    1. Conditioning: A Substitute for Intelligence

    Robots Are Obedient - Rebels Are Dangerous Conditioning: A Substitute for Intelligence Question : Are idiots trained or born? It is a complicated question. Almost ninety percent of idiots are trained. Ten percent are born. And the ten percent are born because of those ninety percent who have been tra...
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    You are not to teach children religion and morality

    Question 4 Osho, How can we teach children to be moral and religious? Krishnaraj, ARE YOU MAD? Are you asking me this question or to Ayatollah Khomaniac? To whom are you asking this question? You should go to Ayatollah Khomaniac. I teach a religionless religion and I teach an amoral morality. It will...
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    Osho Quotes on Education

    Osho on Education "This i call education: to make people more intelligent." - Osho, "The Secret, #2" “Nobody is inferior, and nobody is superior. One is just oneself, incomparable.“ - Osho, "The Golden Future, #23" “Never compare. Each child has to be respected on his own. Each child has to be respec...
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    7. Total Education

    Total Education Discourse date: Fri, 21 January 1968 00:00:00 GMT This discourse was given to teachers at Poddar College. Of the misfortunes that have befallen mankind, the greatest are the ones which we have been regarding as blessings. Because of regarding them as benedictions, as blessings, it has...
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    3. Education: Love-Oriented

    Education: Love-Oriented Date unknown This discourse was given before students under the title: Youth and Rebellion. I am pleased at the prospect of speaking to the youth and the students. The first thing about the youth that comes to my mind is what today I would like to say to you in detail. For th...
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    Pregnancy is not equivalent to motherhood

    [A sannyasin says she’s pregnant. She’d decided to have an abortion and thought she was happy with the decision, but since then, whenever she thinks about it she feels a tremendous amount of sadness.] Mm mm. This will be a momentary sadness. If you want to become a mother then you want to get into de...
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    6. Fire of Rebellion

    Fire of Rebellion Discourse date: Fri, 12 February 1969 00:00:00 GMT This discourse was given before teachers under the title: The Birth of New India! Zarathustra was coming down a hill. He was rushing downwards as if he had heard some very important news from down the hill. He reached the plains, ru...
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    Parents : Osho on Parents

    Osho on Parents On one hand we go on teaching people to be true, and on the other hand, in a subtle way, we go on teaching them not to be true. Each child is made neurotic by the parents, by the society; and we know that we are doing it, and we know that others have done the same to us. Stop doing it...
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    Can children understand the Truth?

    Question 8: Osho, Can children understand the Truth? RAJ, CHILDREN CAN UNDERSTAND THE TRUTH but cannot understand that they understand it. They understand more clearly than you can understand because they are more clean, more innocent; but they are so innocent that they cannot understand that they un...
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    Our educational system teaches ego

    The center around which our education is moving is wrong. The whole problem has arisen due to the wrong center – which is ambition. Our whole educational system is revolving around ambition. What is being taught to us? We are taught ambition. We are taught a race to get ahead of everyone. Even in a s...
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    The more disciplined the child, the more stupid he will be

    Every child is born clever. No child is ever born idiotic. To become an idiot one needs to be educated. To convert people to idiocy, schools and colleges and universities are needed. It is a great achievement. Idiocy is not natural; it has to be learned, it has to be earned. Great effort has to be ma...
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    What would be the form of Education in the New Commune? (The Five-Dimensional Education)

    Question 1: Osho, What would be the form of Education in the New Commune? Maneesha, the education that has prevailed in the past is very insufficient, incomplete, superficial. It only creates people who can earn their livelihood but it does not give any insight into living itself. It is not only inco...
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    15. Education: A Preparation Towards Being Yourself

    Education: A Preparation Towards Being Yourself Question : What is education? Man is born as a seed. He is born as a potentiality. He is not born as an actuality. And this is very special, this is extraordinary, because in the whole of existence only man is born as a potentiality; every other animal ...
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    Parents are not consciously exploiting their children

    We cling to the circumference, so much so that we have completely forgotten about the centre. Unless the circumference disappears completely we are not going to be reminded of the centre. And the centre contains all, the very kingdom of god. And the centre is capable of creating a thousand and one ci...
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    18. Teaching - A Put Down or a Lift Up

    Teaching - A Put Down or a Lift Up Question 3 : You often tell us that we should not judge ourselves or other people. I am a teacher, and because of my job I have to judge the students. Now I am worried about how I shall manage with my job. Can you give me some help? My saying that you should not jud...
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    It is my life - I have learned that there are better things than mathematics

    Listening to the birds, I remember.... Just outside my classroom in the high school there were beautiful mango trees. And mango trees are where cuckoos make their nests. This is the cuckoo that is calling, and there is nothing sweeter than the sound of a cuckoo. So I used to sit by the window, lookin...
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    My parents are so disappointed in me

    Question 2 Osho, My parents are so disappointed in me, they worry all the time. they have made my being here possible, so how can i turn from them? what do i owe to my parents? The trouble with the family is that children grow out of childhood, but parents never grow out of their parenthood! Man has ...
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    Meditation advise for Pregnant Women, Meditation during Pregnancy

    [The woman says: I feel that I’m pregnant since we’ve been here. Is there any meditation or thing to do that will be helpful for the baby or for us?] Just remain as happy and loving as possible. Avoid negativities – that’s what destroys the mind of the child. When the child is in formation he not onl...
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    Parenting : Osho on Parenting

    Osho on Parenting In a better world no parent will give you any belief. Certainly he will give you courage to inquire, courage to adventure. He will sharpen your intelligence so that when you come across a lie you can see it and when you come across a truth you can immediately recognize it, but he wi...
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    on Youth and Education system, Our education destroys our genius

    I am pleased at the prospect of speaking to the youth and the students. The first thing about the youth that comes to my mind is what today I would like to say to you in detail. For the old the past exists; that is already gone, and their whole world is behind them. Children imagine about and desire ...
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    If the child is afraid of the parent, love is not possible.

    [A sannyasin, weeping, says: Something that came up during primal was that even though I see what my parents did to me I'm still doing the same thing to my kid. So many times my own needs get in the way of what she needs. I can't seem to give her any help. And I think I'm doing her harm.] Mm mm. One ...
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    on Responsibility of a Mother, on Good Mother

    [A sannyasin brings her baby and says she has been screaming a lot which upsets her.] That is part of being a mother…. It is not an easy job…. But now it is too late! Every woman wants to become a mother without knowing the responsibilities. It is a long commitment. And remember: never think of what ...
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    Pass through the misery of intellect so that you can attain to the bliss of wisdom

    Question : Beloved Osho, If intellect is such an obstacle in the journey towards self-realization, is not then training and sharpening of it just useless? is it not possible that because of their innocence and expressiveness, children should be helped to move into meditation directly, without imparti...
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    8. The Face of God

    The Face of Godliness Question : How can one ensure that our children maintain their original face? The original face of every child is the face of God. Of course my God is not a Christian, a Hindu, a Jew. My God is not even a person but only a presence. It is less like a flower and more like fragran...
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    Children - Osho Quotes on Children

    Osho Quotes on Children We go on forcing children to go to sleep when we think it is time. But sleep is not to be manipulated by time, sleep is something inner. When the child feels sleepy he will go to sleep, but mother and father go on forcing the child to go to sleep, as if sleep can be ordered. C...
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    (ref) Mystic Rose For Children

    Mystic Rose For Children The following is a meditation suggested by Osho for children and their teachers to do together at the beginning of each school day. Stage 1 Ten minutes gibberish. With eyes closed, make any nonsense sounds you like; sing, cry, shout. Let your body do whatever it wants; jump, ...
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    about having a baby

    [A sannyasin, who is leaving, refers to a letter she had written earlier: I asked if I could have a baby and you said I could. Then I began to think that Osho is putting a responsibility on me and was I ready for it.] If you can avoid it that is very good. When people ask, they create trouble for me....
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    Children’s liberation is needed, No other slavery is so deep

    Veet means beyond, shankaro means conditionings. Man is born unconditioned, man is born as freedom… just an open sky, with no clouds, with no boundaries, with no adjectives, no definitions – neither Hindu nor Christian nor Communist – just pure existence, an emptiness. But immediately the society sta...
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    I am angry with my parents

    Question 2: Osho, I am angry with my parents for the first time. they are simple people, and i say to myself that it is not their fault that they have no understanding of osho. but my anger is so much in conflict with my love that it hurts. i am so angry writing this that i can't even formulate the q...
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    Parents - Osho quotes on Parents

    Osho Quotes on Parents Each child is made neurotic by the parents, by the society; and we know that we are doing it, and we know that others have done the same to us. Stop doing it to yourself and stop doing it to others. Become alert. Just be real. I emphasize reality more than truth. Because truth ...
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    21. A Sufi Story

    A Sufi Story I have told you a Sufi story... A woman was very much impressed by a Sufi mystic, and she was very worried about her only son. She was living for him; the father was dead. That boy was her life, and she wanted him to become something. The boy was too attached to eating sweets and all kin...
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    The five dimensions of education

    Question 1: Osho, What would be the form of education in the new commune? Maneesha, the education that has prevailed in the past is very insufficient, incomplete, superficial. It only creates people who can earn their livelihood but it does not give any insight into living itself. It is not only inco...
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    No child should be taught any religious doctrine.

    I can give you back Only from your innocent childhood, and only from there a real inquiry into truth begins. Only from there religion is possible; otherwise you can only talk about religion. ♦ A small boy gave the following summary of his Sunday school lesson: “There were these Jews who had broken ou...
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    7. Kick Your Own Butt!

    Smack Your Own Butt! Question : How can the birth of a child be made as gentle as possible? When the child comes out of the womb, it is the greatest shock of his life. Even death will not be this big a shock, because death will come without warning. Death will come most probably when he is unconsciou...
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    11. Teenage Revolution

    Teenage Revolution Question 5 : At this young age there is a lot of shyness and insecurity about making decisions. Parents are not often helpful. How to develop the inner strength? All shyness is basically concerned with sex. Once children are perfectly free to have sexual relationships, you will see...
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    9. The Budding of a Buddha

    The Budding of a Buddha Question : How did you manage to stay with your own clarity as a child and not let yourself become intimidated by the grown-ups around you? Where did you get that courage from? Innocence is courage and clarity, both. There is no need to have courage if you are innocent. There ...
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    What it means to be a teacher to children

    [The sannyasin who started the ashram school says: I just don’t understand what it means to be a teacher to children here… ] Yes, that is right — it will be a totally different thing! It will be a totally different thing…. It can’t apply here. A few things to remember, and then you can work them out…...
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    When a mother becomes too much concerned about the child

    [A sannyasin has brought her son because she is worried about the way he doesn’t eat, which may be causing bronchitis, and how he relates with other children.] What is the way? I think the problem is more with you than with him! He seems to be perfectly okay! You seem to be too worried about him. Som...
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    Each child has to be respected as unique

    [The sannyasin who started the ashram school says: I just don’t understand what it means to be a teacher to children here…] Yes, that is right — it will be a totally different thing! It will be a totally different thing…. It can’t apply here. A few things to remember, and then you can work them out…....
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    on Motherhood – So many women want to be mothers but they don’t know how to be

    [A sannyasin says: I am pregnant and I want to ask you if I can be a good mother and if the child can be okay. … I wanted a baby so much; that’s why I don’t know. Maybe I’m not strong enough — that’s why I wanted to ask you. Osho checks here energy.] You have a very great desire to be a mother. So be...
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    on Child Upbringing

    Question 4 : Osho, Is it not possible to raise children in such a way that they never become interested in the dirty things of life? Chandrakand, WHAT do you mean by “dirty things of life”? Life is all beautiful! Even dirt is not dirty, even dirt has its own splendor. Because life is divine — how can...
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    Every child is brought up, conditioned, in a certain religion

    Question 1 Beloved Osho, Are you trying to destroy all of our previous ideas about religion? There is no other way to be religious. All that you have heard about religion, read about religion, has to be totally dropped. Unless you are clean, with no writing on your consciousness, you will never know ...
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    Don’t be a teacher - be a friend

    [A new sannyasin says: I’m a nursery school teacher, I teach children of fouranda-half to five years old. Is there anything you can say to help me to do this job as beautifully as possible?] Very good work. To be with children is one of the most beautiful things. But one has to learn it, otherwise it...
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    22. Conscious Innocence: Paradise Regained

    Conscious Innocence: Paradise Regained Question : Why is childlikeness compared to meditation? When man is reborn, only then he understands what is the beauty and the grandeur of childhood. The child is ignorant; hence he is unable to understand the tremendous innocence that surrounds him. Once a chi...
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    Children should come out of a tremendous love

    First move as deeply into love as possible. Till then avoid having children, because children should come out of a tremendous love, otherwise not. You can give birth to ordinary children, who are just by-products of a physiological and biological meeting of man and woman, but they are anonymous. When...
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    To be a mother means a great revolution, and a radical change

    [A sannyasin says: I’m going to be a mother… Yes, I want it.] Do you understand what it means? If you want it, it is okay, mm? But one should be more conscious about it. To be a mother means a great revolution, and a radical change. To be a woman is one thing, and to be a mother is totally another. Y...
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    To educate means to draw out

    Question 3 Does education lead to meditation? please explain education and religion. Ordinarily that which is called education is almost against meditation. It should not be so but it is so. The original meaning of the word ‘education’ is not against meditation. The original meaning is: to draw out. ...
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    20. Meditation: Nature's Gift

    Meditation: Nature's Gift Question : Surely, meditation is for mystics. Why do you propose it for ordinary people and their children? It is for mystics, surely, but everybody is a born mystic - because everybody carries a great mystery within him which has to be realized; everybody carries great pote...
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    19. The Generation Gap - Mutual Disrespect

    The Generation Gap - Mutual Disrespect Question : What is this generation gap? I hear so much about it these days. Two old men of eighty were sitting in their club when one said, "Do you think there is as much love, as much fun going on as there used to be?" "Yes, certainly," said the other, "but the...
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    Whenever a new child is born the relationship between the husband and wife immediately changes

    [A sannyasin says she feels confused; stuck and not flowing. Osho checks her energy.] Nothing to be worried about. I don’t see that you are not flowing with the river – that is not the confusion. The confusion is just the vice versa: for the first time you are flowing with the river, and that is crea...
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